At my wits end...

You know that saying,"a marriage will ruin a great relationship," well it is true. We are approaching our 1st anniversary and we might not make it. Our relationship is fine except for my 25yr old stepson. After 15yrs together my husband still lets him disrespect me in my own home and myself and my kids for everything. When it is time to grow up?

My stepson has always treated my badly, except when he whats something. Now that we are married, he thinks that I am going take everything his inheritance away. I hadn't planned on it, until now. He doesn't live here and still thinks this is his house and not mine.

Last weekend he left his 2 dogs at my our house to tear everything up. When everything blew up, he attacked my 25yr son "that was visiting" and said it was his fault.

I guess when he tried to ruin our wedding, I thought it would blow over. I just don't know what to do anymore. If I leave, he wins. And why should I give up the love of my life for a spoiled little brat?

My husband has one last chance to straighten this out and stand up to his son.

Osama

This is great news, but how many times do they need to tell us? So far the news has repeated it for over 2hrs. Now they are talking about people wanting to see the body to believe it. There will always be someone to replace Osama. I am extremely grateful to our service men that finally accomplished this, we all know this is not the end.
My nephew was in the unit that killed Suddam's son's. They thought that it would make a difference, but it did not. His is still going thru counseling.
All we can do is hope.....and wish for the best.